OPEN FORUM DISCUSSION - MY FAVORITE KINK

11am SL, Friday November 26 2010

led By Jennys Willful

[11:08] BeccaRae Maven: so Mistress Jenny's - what's on the discussion block today?

[11:09] Jennys Willful: Today... My - and hopefully everyone else's - Favorite Kinks

[11:10] Echo Moonkill: :D

[11:10] Galena Thistle: Woo hoo!

[11:11] Jennys Willful: Well thank you... all?... for coming - and I'll pretend I don't know any of you, so it looks like I attracted a really good audience

[11:11] Jennys Willful: And first, a song...

[11:12] Jennys Willful clears her throat and unleashes a discordant noise... that goes something like this...

[11:12] Jennys Willful: Snowdrops on roses and whiskers on kittens
Blood dripping down from my nice leather mittens
Crocodile clips I affix to your pink
These are a few of my favorite kinks

[11:12] Galena Thistle laughs

[11:12] Echo Moonkill: :D

[11:12] Jennys Willful: Good... whatever time of day it is where you are, and thank you for coming along. As you know, it's the day after Thanksgiving here in the US, the day when all the stores advertise massive sales on luxury items, then you get there with 10,000 other people and discover they only had one in stock.

[11:12] BeccaRae Maven finds herself starting to get a bit wet

[11:12] Jennys Willful: So to try and take your minds off *not* being able to pick up that Violet Wand Deluxe Zapper kit for $5, I thought it would be fun if we talked about what we'd do with it... if we had been able to buy it.

[11:12] Jennys Willful: Or, maybe hot-wiring your partner's genitals to the household electrics is not your idea of fun (although I can't imagine why), in which case there's a lot of other fun things we can talk about as well... everything from rubber and latex to cacti and candles.

[11:13] Jennys Willful: So would anybody like to start us off by introducing us to their favorite kink? Or maybe you would like me to sing another verse?

[11:13] BeccaRae Maven: yes, cactii and candles sounds interesting - what could you possibly do with cactii

11:13] Jennys Willful smiles and wishes she'd stopped by the garden center on her way here

[11:14] Jennys Willful: Another verse!

[11:14] Jennys Willful: When the whip stings
When the blood boils
When I'm feeling cruel....
I simply remember my favorite kinks
And then dip my slave
In gruel....

[11:14] Jennys Willful: yeah, take *that*, Julie Andrews

[11:14] BeccaRae Maven tells herself - "focus - sit on your hands"

[11:14] Echo Moonkill giggles

[11:15] Galena Thistle: I bet she'sa kinky so and so

[11:15] Jennys Willful mimes pointy stiletto

[11:15] Jennys Willful: Yes, stilettos are our friends as well...

[11:16] Jennys Willful: but perhaps somebody else would like to take my mind off them and talk about something else?

[11:16] BeccaRae Maven: is biting considered a kink

[11:16] BeccaRae Maven: like biting in the pink

[11:16] Echo Moonkill: perhaps electro stimulation Miss?

[11:16] Jennys Willful: oh definitely

[11:16] BeccaRae Maven: ooo - that rhymes

[11:17] Jennys Willful: hang on, I'm meant to the poet round here

[11:17] BeccaRae Maven: "is biting in the pink, considered such a kink"

[11:17] Jennys Willful: and if it makies you wriggle, does it also make you think?

[11:17] BeccaRae Maven: sorry - is bad rhymes a torture kink?

[11:17] BeccaRae Maven: i echo Echo

[11:17] Jennys Willful: giggles

[11:17] Echo Moonkill: giggles

[11:17] BeccaRae Maven: what do you like Echo- specifically

[11:18] Echo Moonkill: the intense pain from electro stimulation

[11:18] Jennys Willful: echo, everyone, will be one of the highlights of our December 7 auction, so I hope you're taking notes here

[11:18] BeccaRae Maven: where do u like it most?

[11:18] Echo Moonkill: not knowing when or where

[11:19] BeccaRae Maven: mmmmm

[11:19] Jennys Willful: Oh I know.... and how do you like it administered, echo?

[11:19] Jennys Willful: wand? wires? crocodile clips?

[11:20] Echo Moonkill: the wand is the least predicable Miss *smiles

[11:20] Jennys Willful: I'd agree with that...

[11:20] Jennys Willful: and I know one or two others here would as well

[11:21] Galena Thistle: no electricity for this woman

[11:21] BeccaRae Maven: what about a nice wagon wheel with blindfolds

[11:21] Galena Thistle: Just good old fashioned pain

[11:21] BeccaRae Maven: oooo - maybe with a wand instead of a whip

[11:21] BeccaRae Maven: or both

[11:22] Echo Moonkill: oh i like that too Galena *winks

[11:23] Jennys Willful adopts very serious expression

[11:23] Jennys Willful: Electricity is a wonderful plaything as some of us have probably shown you

[11:23] Jennys Willful: (not literally of course)...

[11:24] Jennys Willful: of course, there can be dangers involved in its use

[11:24] Jennys Willful: but to many people, they add to the fun

[11:24] Jennys Willful: and excitement...

[11:24] Echo Moonkill: nods

[11:24] Jennys Willful: so the first question is - does something *have* to be dangerous to become a "successful" kink?

[11:24] Jennys Willful: or is it merelty the possibility of danger?

[11:25] Echo Moonkill: sitting on cake isn't dangerous Miss

[11:25] Jennys Willful: I know, you're all off IMing your partners, asking themif they paid the electric bill

[11:25] Echo Moonkill: but i have met some with that kink

[11:25] Jennys Willful: Sitting on cake *could* be dangerous,though

[11:26] Jennys Willful: aside from the possibility of gummy anal blockages

[11:26] Echo Moonkill: giggles

[11:26] Jennys Willful: (depending on the nature of the cake,of course)

[11:26] Kim Fossett: i think a kink can be anthing that are "less normal" but that turns you on in some ways

[11:26] Jennys Willful: a young slave neatly inserted into the icing of a cake and then cooked at 350 degrees would be a treat in dolcett land

[11:26] Galena Thistle agrees with Kim

[11:27] Jennys Willful: Kim - can you give us an example?

[11:27] Kim Fossett: Uhhmm well getting peed on would be one

[11:27] Jennys Willful: ok... a good one

[11:28] Jennys Willful: (should I rephrase that?)

[11:28] Kim Fossett: lol

[11:28] Jennys Willful: there are a number of bathroom-oriented pursuits that fall into the realms of our discussion

[11:28] Jennys Willful: something I've noticed, however, is that many people, even extreme humilation fans, do draw the line at that sort of play

[11:29] Jennys Willful: while fans of it often seem reluctant to play with more painful pursuits

[11:29] Kim Fossett: Ehhh

[11:29] Jennys Willful: Not all, Kim...

[11:29] Jennys Willful: but many... thoughts?

[11:30] Kim Fossett: Yeh well, too me it's all a mix ...

[11:31] Jennys Willful: which is good

[11:31] Steffi Lavender: mixxing peeing and elecricity could be dangerous Kim

[11:31] Jennys Willful: it opens your options, and those of your owner to a great many pleasures

[11:31] Kim Fossett: lol yes indeed

[11:31] Jennys Willful: although yes, Steffi makes a good pioint there

[11:31] Jennys Willful: okay, off on a tangent here... does shit conduct electricity?

[11:31] Galena Thistle: or would it ground it?

[11:32] Galena Thistle grins

[11:32] Steffi Lavender: depends what has been eaten

[11:32] Galena Thistle: corn

[11:32] Jennys Willful: condoms

[11:32] Jennys Willful: (sorry)

[11:32] Galena Thistle: eeewww Jenny

[11:32] Jennys Willful: just saying...

[11:32] Echo Moonkill: it would most likely cunduct because of the water in ti

[11:32] Jennys Willful: damn... oh well, there goes that game

[11:32] Kim Fossett: heh

[11:32] Jennys Willful: Choking...

[11:33] Steffi Lavender: only if the water was salty

[11:33] Steffi Lavender: fresh water does not conduct

[11:33] Echo Moonkill: nods

[11:33] Ed Loring: don't count on it

[11:33] Ed Loring: has to be really pure not to conduct

[11:33] Ed Loring: bath water doesn't count

[11:34] Jennys Willful: Okay we have deviated into science talk for a moment

[11:34] Jennys Willful: which is fine...

[11:34] Ed Loring: sorry , can't keep the EE down

[11:34] Jennys Willful: teehee

[11:34] Echo Moonkill: giggles

[11:34] Jennys Willful: Choking... moving on from poo and pee...

[11:34] Kim Fossett: It's fine, electtricity does carry a ring of science to itself

[11:34] Jennys Willful: is another one that people seem to be either really into, or really not

[11:35] Kim Fossett: ;)

[11:35] Jennys Willful: We're all familiar with the stories of people found dangling from door hooks and liught fixtures with an apple in their mouth

[11:35] Jennys Willful: a bag on their head and their trousers round their very dead ankles

[11:36] Jennys Willful: Vicars, politicians, pop stars...

[11:36] Steffi Lavender: or having a call from the Air Hostess who got stuck in Paris and had to get her lover released from teh wardrobe

[11:36] Jennys Willful: has anybody here tried, or witnessed auto-erotic asphysixation?

[11:36] Ed Loring thinks, "pop stars" .. well i guess so, with enough volts

[11:36] Echo Moonkill: not I Miss

[11:36] Jennys Willful: or are you now all IMing home to make sure there's some fruit in the fridge?

[11:37] Jennys Willful: Interesting point echo... whether you realize it or not

[11:37] Jennys Willful: All the "famous" victims of auto-erotic word I can;t spell properly are male

[11:37] Jennys Willful: Why is that?

[11:38] Echo Moonkill: does it affect mens' orgasm differently Miss?

[11:38] Jennys Willful: I don't know... and the men here don't seem to be keen on telling us

[11:39] Steffi Lavender: not having tried it (or wanted to) I wouldnt know

[11:39] Ed Loring grins - well, I've had elecric shocks, but it wasn't in pursuit of a sexual experience

[11:39] Kim Fossett: Nor me ...

[11:39] Steffi Lavender: I thought we were on suffocation

[11:39] Kim Fossett: Yes

[11:39] Jennys Willful: Lag, Steffi, lag...

[11:40] Jennys Willful: Okay, other forms of choking... a rigrous bout of fellatio

[11:40] Jennys Willful: *someone* here must have experienced that?

[11:40] Steffi Lavender: one way of going

[11:40] Ed Loring: mmm, not suffocting to me

[11:40] Echo Moonkill: oh i thought that was something different Miss

[11:40] Jennys Willful: it can be,echo, but it depends how you look at it

[11:41] Jennys Willful: there's a lot of "ifs" in this statement but

[11:41] Price Bailey: Ya my rl X loved to be choked manully or otherwise

[11:41] Jennys Willful: *if* I had a cock

[11:41] Jennys Willful: and *if* I forced your head down on it

[11:41] Jennys Willful: and *if* I held you there long enough

[11:41] Jennys Willful: that could be construed a deliberate choking

[11:41] Steffi Lavender: IN theory it could be done in reverse if the male was under the womn performin cunnilingus and she pressed down hard

[11:42] Ed Loring: what a way to go ...

[11:42] Price Bailey: Part of the reason we broke up , it was fun but I was afraid I'd give her a stroke one day

[11:42] Jennys Willful: that's more siuffocation, though, Steffi

[11:42] Echo Moonkill crosses her legs a bit tighter...

[11:42] Jennys Willful smiles at echo... that might work for now, lol

[11:42] Steffi Lavender: and drowning maybe

[11:42] Echo Moonkill: giggles

[11:43] Echo Moonkill: the three seem so different to me...

[11:43] Jennys Willful dispels some suddenly alluring imagery...

[11:43] Price Bailey: Me I'd love for a lady to smother me with her thighs

[11:43] Steffi Lavender: (makes not to call CIA - acceptable waterboarding)

[11:43] Echo Moonkill: drowning, strangling, and gagging on cock

[11:43] Price Bailey: or buttocks

[11:43] Jennys Willful: which could lead us towards gas attacks...

[11:44] Price Bailey: oh god no!

[11:44] Steffi Lavender: Dutch Oven?

[11:44] Jennys Willful: lol

[11:44] Echo Moonkill covers her ears

[11:44] Price Bailey: forget what I said about buttocks

[11:44] Ed Loring: *if* you ate the wrong breakfast

[11:44] Jennys Willful: armpits,anyone?
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[11:44] Ed Loring: love armpits :-)

[11:44] Echo Moonkill: suffication by boobie anyone?

[11:44] Jennys Willful: let's try it!

[11:45] Echo Moonkill: :D

[11:45] Jennys Willful: okay, moving away from body bits as articles of torture

[11:45] Jennys Willful: if you've visited the Darksideclubhouse.com website, you'll already know about one of my... interests... or maybe you knew about it already?

[11:46] Jennys Willful: Yes,it's time to talk about the cacti

[11:46] Jennys Willful cowers from the resounding silence

[11:46] Price Bailey: god I hope this is an external disscussion

[11:46] Jennys Willful: it can be, Price

[11:46] Jennys Willful: but it doesn't have to be

[11:47] Jennys Willful: Okay, blunt question...

[11:47] Price Bailey: Cool tall me about it?

[11:47] Jennys Willful: has anybody here been whipped with brambles? Roses? Stinging nettles?

[11:47] Ed Loring shivers

[11:47] Price Bailey: nettles , man my older brother was a bastard

[11:48] Echo Moonkill: ouchie :(


[11:49] Price Bailey: man I certainly hope he wasn't having sexual thoughs during that

[11:49] Jennys Willful: can anyone tell us the main difference between a nettle or bramble beating

[11:49] Jennys Willful: and a more conventional whip or paddle etc one?

[11:49] Price Bailey: nettles imbedd in the sjkin

[11:49] Echo Moonkill: the after effects Miss

[11:49] Jennys Willful: Yes!

[11:49] Galena Thistle: ouch

[11:49] Jennys Willful: A whip *can* leave a lingering sting

[11:50] Jennys Willful: Brambles etc *will*

[11:50] Jennys Willful: They are a wonderful way of ensuring the evening's "entertainment" will be remembered

[11:50] Jennys Willful: and who among us would want to be considered an unmemorable lover?

[11:51] Jennys Willful: Which brings us to the cactus dildo

[11:51] Jennys Willful: A special favorite of some people here tonight, I know

[11:51] Jennys Willful looks pointedly at... then looks away

[11:51] Jennys Willful: Has anybody else here had any experience?

[11:52] Jennys Willful: apart from Price, who is now on his way to the garden center

[11:52] Jennys Willful: Okay... well what *have* you had experience with?

[11:52] Jennys Willful: Anybody! Say something!

[11:52] Echo Moonkill shakes head...'no'

[11:53] Jennys Willful: anybody else?

[11:53] Steffi Lavender: definatly no fauna of any kind

[11:53] Steffi Lavender: vegetables maybe

[11:53] Jennys Willful: not even roses?

[11:54] Steffi Lavender: and the chilli peppers was an accident
[11:54] Jennys Willful: but here is an outfit that I think most of you could appreciate

[11:54] Ed Loring remember the poison ivy experience when clean out the wood - definitely not sexual

[11:58] Ed Loring: definitely has summery connotations

[11:58] Jennys Willful: or Christmasy

[11:58] Steffi Lavender: naked except for buds

[11:58] Jennys Willful: Think of all that lovely holly

[11:58] BeccaRae Maven: cacti - yes

[11:58] Jennys Willful: I'll fill you in with the cactus later becca

[11:59] BeccaRae Maven: plz do Mistress

[11:59] Steffi Lavender: literally

[11:59] Jennys Willful: I always do things literally, Steffi

[11:59] Echo Moonkill chuckles

[11:59] BeccaRae Maven: Mistress - i like Echo - she's fun - tee hee
[12:00] Echo Moonkill smiles and blushes

[12:00] Jennys Willful: okay everybody... does anyone have anything to add,?

[12:01] Echo Moonkill: what is the difference between strangling, drowning, and gagging?

[12:01] Jennys Willful: okay,anybody?

[12:02] Jennys Willful: Strangling tends to be external, hands or something around the throat

[12:02] Jennys Willful: Drowning involves filling the lungs with a fluid

[12:02] Ed Loring grins

[12:02] Ed Loring: nice

[12:02] Jennys Willful: and gagging is just sticking something so far down your throat you either throw up or cum
[12:02] Jennys Willful: sorry, did I say that?

[12:03] Echo Moonkill: but they are all choking Miss?

[12:03] Steffi Lavender: But in the case of drowning you can accelerate the drowning by letting the water in

[12:03] Jennys Willful: Not technically...

[12:04] Jennys Willful: but to some people,anything that halts the flow of air to the lungs *could* be termed choking

[12:04] Steffi Lavender: unlike teh russian torture "elephant" which involves use of a gas mask

[12:04] Echo Moonkill: oh my

[12:04] Jennys Willful: oh god I *love* gas masks

[12:04] Echo Moonkill: smiles

[12:04] Jennys Willful: even my tipjar wears a gas mask...

[12:04] Steffi Lavender: you block the air from going in

[12:05] Steffi Lavender: and let it in (by removing hand) when person is close to death

[12:05] Jennys Willful: and why, dare I ask, is it called a Torture Elephant?

[12:06] Steffi Lavender: somthingh like taht

[12:06] Steffi Lavender: check DVD Tortured

[12:06] Jennys Willful: okay, better left to our imaginations, maybe

[12:06] Jennys Willful: Well, I thank you all for coming...

[12:07] Jennys Willful: there will be a transcript available on the website later, in case you want to relive the long silences

[12:07] Echo Moonkill: thank you for the lecture Miss Jenny

[12:07] Galena Thistle: Thank you Jenny!

[12:07] Galena Thistle blows a kiss

[12:07] Jennys Willful catches the kiss and eats it